How Soon is TOO Soon?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2006
How Soon is TOO Soon?
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Mon, 10-23-2006 - 10:31am
Hi all-
First off all, I'm new to this whole “online dating” thing, nor did I search it out. I was playing a game online and started chatting with my opponent during the game and we “clicked”. That turned into an every night chat for the past two weeks, which usually starts at about 7 or 8pm and lasts well into 1 or 2 in the morning ever night. This has only been going on for about two weeks (it’ll be two weeks on Tuesday) however, seemingly we “click” about everything, and feel completely comfortable with each other. While I’m still cautious and, no lie, a bit skeptical, we really want to meet. How soon is too soon to meet? (We live in completely different states….I’m from the northern Midwest and he’s from the Southern Central part of the US.) Any advise or opinions are greatly appreciated.
Thanks ya’ll!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2006
Mon, 10-23-2006 - 10:35am
Oh! I should also add that I'm sure if I say I'm not ready to meet- he'd wait until I was. And while I'm just dying to meet him, I'm still a little cautious and skeptical of our "click" even though I feel it.... (does that make any sense? lol)
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2006
Mon, 10-23-2006 - 4:58pm
Female online gamers are few, so I have to ask, which game has drawn you in?
Interesting way to meet someone, but no different really than meeting while skiing, hiking, etc.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
Tue, 10-24-2006 - 12:44am
I would just say, whenever you are feeling comfortable, go with it. I am in a similar situation right now. I've only been talking to this guy for a little over month and I am flying out to CA this weekend to see him (I live in the Midwest as well.) We are both so excited and both feel comfortable with it...though I am starting to get nervous!!! Anyway, I wouldn't worry about what others might think and just do what feels right for you guys. Good luck!!!!