I can't believe it!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I can't believe it!
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 1:44pm
I had posted just a few days ago about a realationship that has started with this guy I met in a chat room. Well, I had sent him a picture and now, I'm just waiting for his for me. But last night we talked for a while, and I actually talked to his mom. His mom was telling me that I'm all he ever talks about and that he's been showing my picture to everyone. I asked her what he was like, and she just backed up everything I had already thought about him. She told me some stuff about his last relationship and how much he had his heart broken. Something he never would tell me unless in person. I told her that I care about her son and she said that she could tell that our feelings were the same both ways. I really trust what she says about him because they are really very close, from what they both say. We've talked about what we both want out of life and we have found that we have so much in common. This is all just so much for me to handle right now, it's hard for me to comprehend! I like him alot and find myself thinking about him alot.... I really don't know what I'm doing... I don't know if I'm asking for advice, bragging or what... but I just felt the need to tell someone(s) who would understand. Thanks for listening.

Celina
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 2:52pm
WOW! Celina, I am so happy for you. He sounds like a really nice guy, but I would make sure with the photo he sends,that you at least think he is attractive. I think it is really wonderful that his mother knows about you. It shows his feelings are strong for you, if he has told his mother. I like to think of on line dating as dating in real life, but with a twist. SO, look at talking to his mother over the phone as you have actually met his mother. Just like you would have if you two had been on a date or two already.I know it is still not the exact same, but it will work for now until you two can meet. Giggles. I think it is just great. Goodluck!!

Gail
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 11:56pm
How wonderful! That's great!:-)

Doesn't sound like bragging ... sounds to me that you're falling hard for the guy! ;-)