i did something really bad!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2004
i did something really bad!
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Thu, 08-04-2005 - 11:40pm

For those of you who know th ehistory..
I sent the lawyer-man e-mail tonight
<<***, thanks for your kind words in your last e-mail. It means a lot to me.
I am really not that nice of a person but it's great that you though of me as compassionate
enough.
I guess our last conversation on the phone caught me by surprise because even though
I had reservations - I thought we got alone pretty well and really you are the only
person I liked very much off of match in the duration of 7 months.
Yes, I had a nice time with you and I think we are both somewhat are off center
people and are somewhat similar personalities so if anything it would be nice to
stay on a friendly terms. What do you think?
I.>>

Someone please shoot me !!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 2:57pm
Ok, I officially put an end to this.
I just sent him this e-mail..
<in general but this particular case just doesn't feel right to me respect/health-wise.
Good luck in you search.
Best Regards.>>
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Registered: 06-01-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 3:12pm

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Registered: 10-27-2003
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 3:13pm

Kudos to you. I think you did the right thing. A relationship of any kind is not a good one if you have to wrestle with whether it's right for you or not. Clearly this was one of those.

Libra

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Registered: 07-12-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 4:47pm
Whatever makes you happy. This situation did seem to have a lot of short term benefits with a lot of pain in the long term. Good Luck!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2004
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 9:29pm

Good for you! No more late night drunken emails for you, girlfriend! They are nothing but trouble (experience talking).

Keep at it and contact a few guys.

amjay

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Registered: 05-23-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 10:21pm
Good for you, honey! Now take a little breather and then get back in the game. There's someone out there so much more worthy of you.
Best of Luck to you.
Chele
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:11pm
Thanks everyone!
I have never left the "game" and while this has been going on - have been seeing/talking to other men.
I guess, I did have the last word after all, huh? :) Maybe he isn't that good of a lawyer :)
I am sooo evil :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:33pm

Ivos...


I've been watching this whole thread and I just keep on wondering... what are you getting out of it all? I'm getting the feeling you're trying to fit into a mold that isn't you... Help me to understand, please. :)


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:37pm
I am not sure what you mean.
I think message #41 pretty much hit it on the spot for me.


Edited 8/9/2005 11:42 pm ET ET by ivos2004
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Registered: 03-17-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:42pm
She wanted to one up him and now she thinks she did.