i don't suppose no news is good news ..

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Registered: 01-31-2004
i don't suppose no news is good news ..
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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 8:55pm
I feel I am getting more stupid with age.
My bike shop guy hasn't call. I probably won't see him again :( I left him voice message yesterday morning asking him if he wants to get together next week - nothing back yet. I know he had to work today but I also know that man who wants you will find time to follow up.
I think I have some kind of lack of judgment that is a true liability for me.

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Registered: 01-01-2004
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 8:57pm

Ivos-


Isn't this the hook-up guy?

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:03pm
well, in my twisted mind I was kind of hoping for a little more but whatever.. i think I trust certain type of people too much. am too weak .
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:08pm

Wait a minute here. Where does "lack of judgment" come in ? From your OMG thread(s) you made it clear you knew what you were doing -- having fun with a hot guy with no regrets.

My dear, he took 3 weeks to call you the first time, or rather to return the message you left for him. Sounds like just a slow poke, who gets to things when he gets to them.

Try not to let this bring you down.

amjay

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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:19pm
Well, I don't have regrets, I am glad I went for itand had lots of fun. I am kind of bummed out. I really like this guy. He is immature for sure but I am very attracted to him visually. I also feel that he was overly worried about making a good impression at the time.
John and his dog was right - it was probably a booty call :)
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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:20pm

Yup, I see.

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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:20pm
Well, I've gotta say (and this is not meant in a judgemental way AT ALL) but giving it up on the first date really sets the "mood" of this just being a hook-up thing or even just a one-night stand. Yes, it is awkward on both sides after it moves so fast, but even if he is a slowpoke, if he really was interested, he probably would have called by now. Not definitely so there is always a chance that he is just playing it cool and will call within a few days, but if I were you, chalk it up to a night of fun and don't expect anything more.

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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 9:27pm
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I call once - wait for reply - I don't call twice. That is my rule.
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Registered: 10-26-2004
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 10:51pm

Hi Iv,

Thou art not alone--I think last week was "Stupid Week" and no one told me! I have not let this get me down, but I think that once again,when I Did decide to like someone, I chose a "smooth criminal"--man, they are Slick! What began as a great amount of attention and what seemed like good vibes, quickly became as grating as a chainsaw in overdrive. Cupcake Overdrive!

I do not seem to have any affection for men that are WHAT/WHOM they say they are...I think, under these bangs, there is a "The brain is...Out" sign that they can see clearly! Even over 50, I am surprised by their behaviour, and I end up feeling like a dumb little kid...will I NEVER learn?!

Nahhh...maybe not, but I will sure as he** look Adorable doing it!! So, to celebrate the end of "Stupid Gras" here in the South, I have got two New men on the hoof and I am rolling on...and let me guess...when I am out of range, Guess who will show back up? Yep, Senor Hoodwink from the last 10 days--Bygones, His Bad!!!

ALWAYS realize that you are a Good woman and you have a Lot to offer...and God and Karma will take 'care' of those who are ugly to you! Hide and watch!

Here's to a Better Week!

Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 11:16pm

>>ALWAYS realize that you are a Good woman and you have a Lot to offer...and God and Karma will take 'care' of those who are ugly to you!<<


Maybe it's not what you meant, but I don't think the hot bike shop guy was "ugly" to ivos in any way shape

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Mon, 03-21-2005 - 6:21pm
Cheers, may we have better luck this week.

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