i don't suppose no news is good news ..

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Registered: 01-31-2004
i don't suppose no news is good news ..
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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 8:55pm
I feel I am getting more stupid with age.
My bike shop guy hasn't call. I probably won't see him again :( I left him voice message yesterday morning asking him if he wants to get together next week - nothing back yet. I know he had to work today but I also know that man who wants you will find time to follow up.
I think I have some kind of lack of judgment that is a true liability for me.

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Mon, 03-21-2005 - 7:41pm

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What can I say, I am a bit embarrassed about this whole experience :)

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Mon, 03-21-2005 - 9:32pm

HiIv,

Hoov, I do see what you are saying and appreciate it..no, I wasn't saying he was ugly with her, I was more saying that I really Like to remain a lady and stay 'above the upper', so that I don't have to say "Man, WHY did I do/say that?!". Instead, I remain above the 'not so great behaviour of whomever, and have found that Karma has got my back! :)

And Ivos, I am in the Same spot....wow, I bought the farm on this one and have been to Stupidville for the last 3 days with myself...But...last night I decided that I did Not care if this 'man' was not Smart enough to appreciate the Cupcake! He still hasn't called, but by the time he Does--as I am sure he is holding out for a BBD this week and if 'none better' comes along, then he will call me...ohhhh...about Thursday! As/If! I already have plans for Wednesday and Saturday nights with two New Guys, and, I swear, I will say I am busy for whenever he asks me, if I have to stay home and french braid the Pug's hair!!! How cavalier, and how dare he think I can be Minimized!?

Yes,what I gave meant a lot to me, as it did to you, Ivos, but they don't feel that way, so it is time to live/learn/move on..This Is How We Learn--so I do not regret it any longer.

Gotta go pack a bag for Smarterville! Get on the train with me!

here's to us!

truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 03-22-2005 - 6:32pm

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The problem is.. I kinda still care for this guy, my feelings hurt and that is why I belong in Stupidville. Am thinking to run for the Mayor position.

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Registered: 05-29-2003
Tue, 03-22-2005 - 6:39pm
Been there, done that!! Seriously, maybe if you can recognize that you didn't *really* know this guy very well, so any "caring" was likely projection on your part, then you will feel better. I think it's so easy to think that chemistry = reality, when, in fact, it doesn't. If I had ended up marrying any of the guys I had hot chemistry with in my past, I'd be divorced by now! Honestly, I truly believe that if they don't stick around, the universe is helping you dodge a bullet. Even though it's a bit ouchy right now, when you meet the next great guy, you'll say to yourself "Thank God I didn't end up with Mr. Bicycle guy!!"
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 03-22-2005 - 6:52pm
Thanks Dari, it felt like a hug :)
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Registered: 05-29-2003
Tue, 03-22-2005 - 7:34pm
It was!!! :-)

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