I forgot to ask a couple of questions

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Registered: 08-07-2005
I forgot to ask a couple of questions
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Sat, 09-03-2005 - 9:20am

I am sorry to post like this again. Another thing I am wondering about is, I know someone viewed me, but he doesn't show up on the "who viewed you". Is it possible to make sure that someone does not know you viewed their profile?

And, how come so many people who respond to me do not have photos?

Thanks,

Bunny

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 9:31am

>> Is it possible to make sure that someone does not know you
>> viewed their profile?

From Match.com:

If you view another subscriber’s profile, you will show up in their "Who’s Viewed Me" list. HOWEVER, no matter how many times you view their profile, you will only show up in their "Who’s Viewed Me" list once. If you do not wish to show up in a "Who’s Viewed You" list of another member, you can "hide" your profile while conducting your searches.

>> And, how come so many people who respond to me do not
>> have photos?

Most people put up pics, some don't. There's no real way to know why some don't. I met someone once who didn't have a pic up, and it was "awkward". (Simply because we met on Jdate, and he never mentioned that he was black. It just surprised me, particularly when he said "I wasn't sure if that was you. Your hair is a different color from your picture." I bit my tongue on that one. )

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 1:44pm
Are you doing old now? Is the "other" situation over with?
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Registered: 08-07-2005
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 4:31pm

Hi Sally,

Well the other situation still lingers. I did tell him that I am going to start seeing other people. I signed up for Match.com, e-harmony and yahoo personals. I posted earlier asking people if I should let him know about that.

Bunny

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 8:18am

I wouldn't tell him. He knows you are going to date, he doesn't need to know the where, what and when. You know?

I think this is a great step for you.