I have a meet on Friday

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Registered: 03-19-2005
I have a meet on Friday
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Tue, 12-20-2005 - 7:55am
I have been talking with a guy for almost 2 weeks and we are planning to meet this Friday. He is 2hrs away so it will not be a quick 20 minute meet. We are going to have dinner. It's been awhile since I had a first meet and I am really excited. He is too.
Last month I was talking with one guy and on the day we were suppose to meet he cancelled and I never heard from him again. And that has been so typical lately. I'm just hoping this guy won't cancel. He has been intiating all chats & phone calls so that to me is a good sign.
He seems really into me. We have been clicking. As far as physically attractive? I don't know how I will feel when I see him in person. You can think a guy looks nice in the photo, but in person think differently. And I think he's worried about that.
I am just REALLY excited right now. Looking forward to it. I'm getting kinda flighty as friday approaches. I need to get back to earth and reality. Remembering all the lessons I've learned on this board about not putting all your eggs in one basket, not believing everything they say, keep an eye on any red flags and not to get my hopes up too soon. Which is hard.
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Registered: 06-01-2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 4:40pm

Hi COGH!


I am excited for you.

CL-Truewild1969

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 5:28pm

Hi , COGH-

yes, congrat's on your first meet. I understand your excitement as well as your reservaations. Just relax and have fun. Be yourself. Good look, and let us know how it goes.

Kae

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Registered: 03-19-2005
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 6:14pm
Update: I just got back from my lunch date. It went OK. He seems nice in person. There was some silent moments and I don't know if he was nervous, but I know when I first meet someone I am very nervous. I told him several times that I'm a bit on the cautious side and it takes me awhile to warm up and start trusting someone. I pretty much like to take things slow.
Sometimes I think guys are expecting someone who's affectionate & act sooo excited to see/meet them on the first date. That's not me. And, maybe, that's why I don't get many second dates. Who knows. I think, maybe, he was expecting someone who showed more interest. Too click instantly like we have online & on the phone.
Anyways, I think he is nice and would go out with him if he would ask me.