I just don't get this ......

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Registered: 01-22-2007
I just don't get this ......
Sun, 10-18-2009 - 9:30pm

So I have been doing the EH thing now for a few months.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-18-2009 - 10:31pm
I would also feel uncomfortable talking about kissing or anything more w/ someone I hadn't even met. It would make me a little wary of meeting that guy since it makes it sound like he's only interested in sex. I don't know why guys don't get that. They should err on the side of being gentlemen until they actually see that the woman likes them IRL.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Mon, 10-19-2009 - 6:55am

I've been doing OLD for about 2 years now, and anyone who asked a question like that of me would be instantly deleted. If nothing else, it's just clueless.

"WTF" is right.

I've never had anyone ask me such a question, luckily, but I have read some really strange profiles where the guys bring up sex--it's just creepy. Oh, but I did have the one guy tell me I reminded him of a porn film he saw. That was charming.

But, don't give up, really...there are alot of nice guys online. You're just hearing from the losers. Ignore them.

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Tue, 10-20-2009 - 2:44pm

Some ppl are just so clueless. Seriously.....

Ignore him and move on. Like another poster said...there are nice guys out there doing OLD. I know...I married one. Dont give up! Best of luck!

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 12:47pm

Yeah, I never heard from him again.

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Registered: 08-15-2009
Sun, 10-25-2009 - 3:20am

Eeww, asking someone you haven’t even met if they like kissing for long periods of time . . . the next question: