I new to OLD and have ?'s
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I new to OLD and have ?'s
| Sun, 05-29-2005 - 4:22pm |
I've been chatting with this guy for about 2 months. We met in a chat room I guess. I don't really remember. You see he's 22 and so I thought it was just a young guy being a young guy in a chat room looking for anyone at all to chat! So then he adds me to his friends list and when I would sign on to yahoo he'd say hi. Sometimes I would reply and other times I didn't. So to get rid of him when he asked if I had children I said yes, 2 boys. They are my children but they are dogs. But I didn't tell him that b/c of the age I guess. Not fair but I didn't think he was looking for anything more than sex chat and I wasn't interested. As time went on, when we did chat it was never about sex, it was good clean interesting conversation. I had to ask why he was so mature at 22 and he said he had a tough upbringing and had to mature quickly to take care of his sisters. Wow, sounded great. So now I like him and he tells me all the time how he thinks I'm beautiful and loves talking to me. Even said one time that I am the only thing he looks forward to when he gets home from work unless his 5 y/o son is there. He's single and wants a woman who is older b/c he thinks girls his age aren't looking for the same things in life as him. He wants someone to share life with, get married and have more children. So all this sounds good right? Well 2 weekends ago we were chatting on Fri night then quickly he has to go to bail his friend out of jail. Said he had to wait for hours, then got called into work all weekend. 23 hrs of work in 2 days with very little sleep. So fine, I didn't hear from him at all. Then on Tues we talk. So this past Thurs we are chatting and he says he crashed his atv and hurt his neck. He said he was going to the store to get something for the pain, then he finally comes back and says he's got dizzy spells and a headache. So I haven't heard from him since. I wonder if he just likes talking to me on week days and wants weekends to himself. I feel like these are just excuses. He says I have issues with trust and prob I do but isn't it a little weird? When we talk on week days, we really click. Some of the best conversations i've had are with him. Should I ignore him when he comes back, prob on Mon or Tues? He is young, I'm 30 and he's 23 next month.
This is just so new to me. How do you trust someone thru a computer.
LilRocket
This is just so new to me. How do you trust someone thru a computer.
LilRocket

Q: How do you trust someone through a computer? Good question. Personally, I don't think you can.
While it may feel as though you're experiencing a connection with this person, you won't have a clue who he is until you meet in person (and even then, there are no guarantees..lol). I wouldn't recommend investing much time in this one. If certain things aren't sitting well with you, there's probably good reason behind it.
During the night last night he left me an offline saying he broke his should (I work in medicine and I'm not sure how you do that) and he had to have surgery on it. So he was at his moms being pampered. Whatever!!! I can't believe I was actually going to give him the time of day. I already did and now I realize it was a waste of time. The funny part is that he sent the message at 2:07 in the morning and said he was just getting home from moms when he thought he would let me know how things were. I haven't heard from him since and I'm cutting my losses now. Well really it's no loss. Just some time spent chatting but I would have been doing something else useless anyway. Life definitely goes on.
LilRocket