I slept at Carlos' the other nite ....

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I slept at Carlos' the other nite ....
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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 6:11am

& i am OVER HIM!

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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 8:28am

I almost choked when I first saw your post! Bad girl for leading me on... LOL


But be careful Miss. I'm getting this feeling that if you continue on, something will happen. Not basing it on facts, just a vibe. So tread carefully unless you're ok with it crossing the line of friendship...


Otherwise though, good for you... :)

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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 9:07am

Thanks for the warning. I truly dont think it would cross that line. & even if it started to, I wouldnt let it. For numerous reasons, the 2 most important of which: 1) I wouldnt want to get sucked back in & THAT may do it ... 2) we all know I dont believe in the whole "you wont buy the cow if you get the milk for free" ... but in THIS case, I will live by it!

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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 11:14am

Makes sense... yeah I don't know where I stand with that cow/milk thing. But honestly, sometimes cows are more work than the benefit of milk. hehe.


But seriously, I'm proud of ya. Even though I don't know you. I'm glad to hear where you're at and that you sound like you're in a great place with the whole Carlos thing...





Edited 4/11/2007 11:16 am ET by cl-bklynchik
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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 2:11pm
Rebecca, I'm confused. Why are you seeing Carlos at all, if you still have or recently had feelings for him?
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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 5:13pm

Not sure what you are confused about, but its a simple answer:


Main Entry: 1friend
Pronunciation: 'frend
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English frend, from Old English frEond; akin to Old High German friunt friend, Old English frEon to love, frEo free
1 a : one attached to another by affection or esteem
2 a : one that is not hostile b : one that is of the same nation, party, or group
3 : one that favors or promotes something (as a charity)
4 : a favored companion

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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 6:26pm
Rebecca, I know what a friend is. I wasn't trying to get nosey; the guy that tortured me for months or maybe I tortured myself wanted to be friends also. However, all it caused me is pain...
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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 10:29pm

That's awesome. I am glad you two can still have eachother as friends. It's a freeing feeling, too, when you realize that you ARE over it, and I think the strongest sign of being over someone is having healthy, positive feelings of care for them. Anger and sadness, the opposite. For me, I knew I was truly over my ex once I caught myself wishing good things for him. Freudian slip, almost said 'thongs for him' --didn't wish that for him, still don't, but happines, yes. You reach this peaceful place in your heart for them.

So, what about the hark the herald dater guy???

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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 10:53pm

lol, the HARK guy.

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Thu, 04-12-2007 - 10:01pm
I hate to be rude, but I hope you use protection with all the men you sleep with...goodness.
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Thu, 04-12-2007 - 11:40pm

Valid question. & yes, I do, Of course. -- "All" the men may seem like more than they actually are.

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