ideas for me...

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Registered: 08-18-2009
ideas for me...
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Tue, 08-18-2009 - 8:43pm

Hey all...


So, honestly - believe me - I know all about letting the guy be the pursuer and not coming on too strong, etc.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-18-2009 - 11:09pm

Just don't do it again ;-).

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 12:03am

Given this little burst of self-awareness:


"I know I can come across as not being interested.

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Registered: 09-02-2008
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 8:12am

I think your text sounded fun & flirty and not only shouldn't you worry about having sent it, if you had it to do over, you should send it again.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 1:22pm
I would look at it this way: He was unsure after your first meet if you were interested or not. You refuse to be the one chasing (which is good IMO!). BUT maybe a text like that every once in awhile might just reassure HIM that he is not wasting his time.
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Registered: 08-18-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 7:18pm

Wow - what a great response.

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Registered: 08-18-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 7:19pm

ANOTHER INSIGHTFUL RESPONSE!!!!

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 8:40pm

FWIW: there was nothing remotely sarcastic about my post, and the gist of it was essentially identical to the post you liked so much. The reference to "self awareness" was actually complimentary.


So ... you didn't "get" anything about it,

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Registered: 07-17-2009
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:38pm
You pursued him once and you still have a date with him. Just don't do it again if it makes you worried. I'm totally like you with some guys thinking I'm not into them. I have to make a conscious effort to come across as interested. So just put on your flirt next time you see him and things should go well from there..hopefully :)
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Registered: 08-18-2009
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 9:31pm

you so funny!