If he/she says they are "too busy" to meet in person, MOVE ON
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|Thu, 11-07-2013 - 3:08pm|
If you connect with someone and you chat/email/text, exchange pics and some basic personal information,,,,,,,,,,,and both of you agree that you’d like to take it further by meeting for a drink/coffee, but the other person goes on about how they are “crazy busy” at work and/or sooooooo busy with classes, family, or (whatever)~~~~~>RED FLAG. You are most likely dealing with someone who is lying about something and they just want to diddle around with emails/texts/phone calls for as long as you (and several others they are playing with) will put up with it.
Let’s get real. If the person is THAT busy, how do they have time to visit online dating sites? More importantly, if they don’t have time to date, why are they wasting your time? And why are YOU wasting your time?
Yeah, I know, you say he lives out of town (a “safe” distance”) and some family issue came up and he just got a promotion and his boss is being really demanding and his co-worker had a death in the family, blahblahblah. Okay, so you tell yourself you’ve “met” a great guy (who you haven’t actually “met”) and you tell yourself and others that you have a “boyfriend” and you feel that glow. Wheee! Except for one thing: You aren’t DATING – you’re just living some pathetic fantasy that most likely will never amount to squat. And if he is in Denver and you are in Dallas and he has made no real effort to meet in person or makes plans then cancels because of (whatever) and stalls and stalls then stops texting and ignores your emails ~~>you have been played. He is married/in a relationship, or he is playing this same online game with several women just for kicks.
Before you allow that to happen, MOVE ON.