I'm in desperate need of some advice...
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| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 12:12pm |
Hi everyone,
I have a problem that I wanted some advice on If I could get it. I met this guy online that I have been talking to for about 6 months now. We've exchanged pictures, talked to each other via webcam and voicechat etc etc. Well, actually we started out just talking as friends, and noticed that we have a ton of things in common. He is 4 years younger than me. I'm 23. But age isn't an issue for either of us. I noticed that two months ago, we started to develop feelings for each other. My actual problem with this whole thing is that this guy lives in Madrid Spain. He is on the other side of the world. I have tried a million times to make myself get over this guy because, lets face it, having a relationship with someone who might as well be a million miles away, is close to impossible. I was actually thinking of going and meeting him in a couple weeks, but I would only be able to stay there for a week. I think that would just end in heartbreak, because I can't afford to fly to Madrid every week to see him. What do you guys suggest I do in this situation? I mean, I talk to him every day. For hours. Should I just break it off with him? I don't want to hurt this guy...
Can anyone offer any advice?

If you have no interest in living in Spain and he has no interest in moving to where you are, then yes, I think you should break it off.
I agree with Jennie, neither of you are in a position to really make this relationship work - which would involve one of you moving to the other's location.