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| Thu, 04-28-2005 - 11:14pm |
ok for the first time in my life a match-making deal "sort of" worked for me. Most of the match making has been really bad, you know not even close to your type deal when friends match you up.... Well, my girl friend did a fantastic job with her guy friend from law school.
I kind of forgot about him after I met him two weeks ago,,since I wasn't sure how he felt (still dont).... but she told me i have to go to this party tomorrow night where he'll be. he mentioned that i should come with her. ;) im very excited and i felt chemistry with him when i met him. We talked and got along great. Just didn't think anything would happen. So I think tomorrow night will tell me alot. I havent been this excited in awhile to see a guy much less excited to get dolled up to go out!!!! yah.
When I met him I was in a hooded sweatshirt, jeans and some flip flops. Very surfergirl style... and while I loved that I was so casual and all the girls in the bar were all dolled up (i stood out in a good way since I was one of the two non pretentious gals there) ... I just didn't look like my flirty dressed up self. Tomorrow night I will be flirting shamelessly but in a good way =).hopefully i can report he made some sort of move or I could tell he wanted to see me again. Last time he seemed interestd. we shall see.

Well good luck - I hope you two make a nice connection!!!!
AWESOME surfergirl! Have a fantastice evening!
I am going out dancing tomorrow night with a friend of mine. We haven't been out dancing together in 13 years!!!! So here's to the both of us just letting loose and enjoying ourselves!
Jennifer
thank u gals ;)... ok so did the dates go well for the others or the danc'gn night???
my night was really fun. the guy likes me! this is the plus of being match made, you kind of know if htey do - my friend told me at the end of the night that the guy pulled her outsdie to talk about me. I had been wondering why they were gone so long, hehe. i could tell there was ALOT more chemistry between he & i - and the conversaitons were going great. We were around some of their friends and mine, so i didnt get a chance to talk with him all night. but ended the night at his place with my friend and hsi friend. we just hung out and talked. very innocent. but he has smeone he is seeing but isn't serious and shes long dist - he said to my friend it isn't going anywhere - and that he really wanted to do things right with me - so he wasn't sure when he would ask me out. But that he really liked me and wanted to pursue me whne things were better for him. It really said alot about his character (which i never questioned bc my friend said he is a very honorable person).
I have been thinking of him for the last two days. Crazy. SO my friend is talking to him this wk since they have to study for a final together. she said he would probably talk to her about me and she'll let me know.
the chemistry when he sat by me was like fireworks. it truly has been ages since ive felt that for anyone. if anything im really flattered this guy wants to date me, even if it never happens.
Ahhh the infactuation and i feel like a total teenager =).... I will def keep u all updated but i dont think much will happen bc hes got finals, then studying for the bar exam ... so it may be awhile - and im ok with that. I think this guy relaly has long term potential - just a hunch!
>> but he has smeone he is seeing but isn't serious and shes long dist - he said to my friend it isn't going anywhere -
- hmm. Why is he still seeing her? I'd consider this a red flag until I knew the details. Even better if your friend could verify those details.
nah its all good. not like hes cheating at all or even close.
ive ha da long talk to her about him/the girl. i was careful not to really do anything w/ him, but my friend stated she talked to him about that girl, and he isn't exclusive with her....i think its one of those things where you are hanging out/but aren't exclusive. But he doesn't date more than one person at a time. unlike most of us who go out on several dates with a few ppl...
she knows him really well and for over 3 years, so he is telling the truth. he is a good guy.
SG, I wish you much luck with this new guy. It is nice to have the inside line with your friend knowing him! But I would still be a little cautious about the long distance gf that he has.
Sunshine