I'm excited and nervous !! - RL guy
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I'm excited and nervous !! - RL guy
| Wed, 03-23-2005 - 10:00pm |
There is a guy- in real life -that I've known for close to 10 yrs. He worked for my ex-inlaws and we've become friends. Well, one year after my divorce he called me (he lives 3 hrs away) and said he'd like to visit and take me to dinner. Turns out he's had a crush on me all these years and I kinda felt alittle of that myself, even though I was married. He visited twice that summer. That was two years ago. We talk alot on the phone, he knows about my OLD follies and he tells me about women he goes out with. He's a great friend.(I guess I should also include the fact that we 'did the deed'). Anyway, he's coming to visit me tomorrow!!! Oh my gosh am I nervous. I have cleaned my whole house. I haven't seen him in two yrs! and I'm pretty sure we'll 'you know what' and it's been a really long time. We both agree that we can't be more than friends because he lives 3 hrs away, he's self employed and travels way too much for his job, never married/no kids, and says it would be too awkward explaining seeing each other to my exhusband and my ex inlaws who know him. I can't wait to see him!

Hi Donna,
Well it sounds like there is some kind of connection between the two of you... who cares what the EX inlaws and EX husband think!!!!!!!!! There is a possibility that this could be something good between the two of you - maybe this one is the one that is meant to be! You can't live your life for what your ex inlaws and EX husband think!
If it were to turn into something else, couldn't one of you move? It just sounds to me like it could have some great possibilities if you both wanted it to be like that.
But however it is meant to be - have a super time tomorrow with RL guy!
Sunshine
Donna,
It sounds to me like you want more. And
Hi Donna,
Yes he does sound like a free spirit, but a fun one to be totally enjoyed!!! As long as you don't see it for more than it is - have a super fantastic night of HOT SEX!!!!! Oh yeah, be very safe also.... ;)
Sunshine