I'm hoping for a good weeked.
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I'm hoping for a good weeked.
| Fri, 10-14-2005 - 4:45pm |
Ok, for me this whole dating thing seems to be either feast or famine. Anyone else have that problem? But I do have 2 dates this weekend. One tonight with a really nice guy I've been out with before. Then I have one tomorrow that I'm really kind of nervous for. We've exchanged e-mails a lot and done the whole IM thing. We seem to have A LOT in common. His pic looks good and as I go down my mental list of what I'm looking for and what interests me, he's doing really well. But I had a date a few weeks ago with a guy I felt really good about. Then when I got there, he didn't look at all like he said. He needed real fashion help, too. But I could have lived with that. I walked up to say hi and he gave me this HUGE bear hug. I could barely breathe! Then we went in to watch a movie. Now this was a movie I really wanted to see. He kept leaning over to give me kisses. It totally blocked my view of the screen. Plus these weren't just any kisses. We're talking big nasty wet kisses where he kept trying to stick his tongue in my mouth. After the first attempt I shoved him away and told him to stop. He tried it again and I bit him and told him if he tried that again, I would leave and tell security on my way out. After that, he stopped. I blocked his profile on that site and wouldn't take his calls. Then I got a message from him on another site. He took a job in Cali and he wanted to fly me out to LIVE with him!!! The man just can't get it! So I'm hoping this date tomorrow turns out better than that. Ok, well, let's be honest here, it wouldn't take a lot to be better than that! I'm so nervous I have a big zit on the my cheek! Yuck! I didn't even get zits in high school. Man, what's up with that?!?!?

Your overstressing! Just relax and enjoy and have NO EXPECTATION!! That's mainly the problem building up all this expectation! Just think of it as just hanging out, meeting someone new and whatever happens from there will happen.
Have fun on your dates!!