Reading your post made me feel like sending you a hug…. I know it is a bit odd And about your airline pilot “slinky” guy, go with your gut but make sure that you don’t settle. About being lonely, I know the feeling …I just changed the opening line to my profile to “This may sound silly but I have had it with being alone ….(Oh boy! I must remind myself to change that soon):-D Take care Winnie
If you can keep your spirit high and it wont affect your dating attitude then give him another chance. just keep your expectations low. I m not sure why you did not like him first but if you think there might be a chance you get interested then try and see what happens. As long as you lose nothing. Plus if you realised after few dates it is not working be honest with the guy and dont worry about hurting his feelings. If he were you he wouldn't worry either!
I'm sure you'll be fine just being friends but most men are not even if they say otherwise. He's hoping by being your friend you'll change your mind about being more then friends so just be careful. Ususally someone gets hurt in situations like this - you met on a dating site not a friends site. I'd personally just try to fill my time with friends, other dates, activities I enjoy rather then trying to fit this guy in your friends category but if you want to just make sure he knows it will never be anything more then it is now.
Sounds like you have some crazies writing you from your other post - did you watch that show on Monday "How to get the guy"? It showed these 4 women on some dates that were very comical - and the scary part is these are some of the types that will be writing you, me and the rest on this board, LOL but you gotta laugh!
Hi Emily,
Reading your post made me feel like sending you a hug…. I know it is a bit odd
And about your airline pilot “slinky” guy, go with your gut but make sure that you don’t settle. About being lonely, I know the feeling …I just changed the opening line to my profile to “This may sound silly but I have had it with being alone ….(Oh boy! I must remind myself to change that soon):-D
Take care
Winnie
I'm sure you'll be fine just being friends but most men are not even if they say otherwise. He's hoping by being your friend you'll change your mind about being more then friends so just be careful. Ususally someone gets hurt in situations like this - you met on a dating site not a friends site. I'd personally just try to fill my time with friends, other dates, activities I enjoy rather then trying to fit this guy in your friends category but if you want to just make sure he knows it will never be anything more then it is now.
Sounds like you have some crazies writing you from your other post - did you watch that show on Monday "How to get the guy"? It showed these 4 women on some dates that were very comical - and the scary part is these are some of the types that will be writing you, me and the rest on this board, LOL but you gotta laugh!
Cheers,
Ms.Peanut