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Im new to this internet dating
| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 1:30am |
i have never thought to meet someone from the internet until i meet dean he is shy, tall, and a couch potatoe and video game addict like me. we have been chatting since feb 13, telling how much we hate valentines day and dont need a relationship to define us blah blah in other words im lonely hold me....
Dean and i both had pics from our graduation which was two years ago we both decided to get cams to chat with each other, he has curley blonde hair and ocean blue eyes.
The thing is he lives 2 hours away, but we are both dying to see each other if not to get into a relationship then to be friends. Another thing is my family- black doesnt like white people, and we both never dated out side our race. As he already knows i dont care what my family thinks. Communication, he is usually online after work and gave me his cell # as he has mine but they live in a woodies area where u have to go outside and walk for a signal, so i can talk to him when hes on break at work, but havent so far, dont wan t him to get in trouble with his boss as he doesnt want me to get in trouble with my professor (im on thin ice with her).
i have heard the online horror stories what can i do to see if hes not too good to be true. So far the facts have added up? am i just looking for trouble?
Dean and i both had pics from our graduation which was two years ago we both decided to get cams to chat with each other, he has curley blonde hair and ocean blue eyes.
The thing is he lives 2 hours away, but we are both dying to see each other if not to get into a relationship then to be friends. Another thing is my family- black doesnt like white people, and we both never dated out side our race. As he already knows i dont care what my family thinks. Communication, he is usually online after work and gave me his cell # as he has mine but they live in a woodies area where u have to go outside and walk for a signal, so i can talk to him when hes on break at work, but havent so far, dont wan t him to get in trouble with his boss as he doesnt want me to get in trouble with my professor (im on thin ice with her).
i have heard the online horror stories what can i do to see if hes not too good to be true. So far the facts have added up? am i just looking for trouble?

You do need to meet ASAP to see if your "chemistry" online translates in person. Very often it doesn't so you need to keep your expectations realistic. And when people are shy and maybe more into technology than into people, you need to be especially careful - he might want an online pal instead of a real friend or girlfriend. So find a weekend when he can drive to your town or you can meet somewhere in the middle.
As for the bi-racial thing, there is an Interacial Dating board. They might be able to give you some tips on how to handle things if you and he do decide to start dating. The URL is http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlinterracia
Also, there is a Long-distance Dating board too so again, they might help you there. http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllongdistan
I gotta say, you've got a couple whammys working against you here with these two issues so that is even more reason to meet as soon as possible so you don't get all excited about something that 1) doesn't exist yet and 2) may have problems getting off the ground. Good luck!