I'm so confused

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2005
I'm so confused
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Sat, 01-14-2006 - 9:23pm
Okay, I met this guy online from that website hot or not. Well, we really hit it off, he's my type (tall, lean, black hair, and green eyes). Well the problem is is that he lives in England and I live in Mississippi. Long before I had even gotten on the website, I had planned on going to college in England, so it kinda works. Well we really like each other and have this deal that if he doesn't mess w/ any girls, I won't mess w/ any guys. Should I believe him? Also, we usually talk every night but for the past week, we haven't spoken. I don't know if its because he's at university or if he's lost interest. So what do ya'll think?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2005
Sat, 01-14-2006 - 9:32pm
Why would you believe someone you've never met?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
Sat, 01-14-2006 - 9:36pm

Honestly -

I think you're too young (I'm assuming you're young if you're talking about going off to university) to keep from dating someone just because you've made an agreement with someone you've never met. You have no idea what this guy is like in real life, you have no idea if he's a 60 year old or another woman (yes, it happens).

Unless you are going to meet this guy and spend time with him, you're wasting your time not dating other people.