Im so confused

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Im so confused
Sat, 09-22-2012 - 7:23pm
uld I ask to define the relationship?

So about a month ago I answered a personal ad online for the first time and we really clicked and so a few days later we met for the first time and we have gotten along great and I really like him a lot. About the fifth date slept together and everything seemed to be going well we have hung out a few times since then and have spent the night a couple of time without having sex. How ever things seem different this past week we have barely talked and he hasn't asked to hang out and I did ask if he wanted to but he said that he was going to hang out with his parents. So I know it sounds stalkerish but I was feeling paranoid and went to the website where his ad that I responded to was and it turns out he reposted an ad the day after we had sex for the first time but that was 2 weeks ago and things seemed to be going fine since then except this past week. So that's the back story so I dont know if I should ask if he is even interested in being exclusive or if I should just end it before I get attached
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Mon, 09-24-2012 - 11:48am
I think he has already lost interest, so I would forget about him and move on.
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Tue, 09-25-2012 - 9:51am
I'm sorry it does sound like he's moved suggestion don't be so quick to jump into bed....there isn't anything written that it has to be quick...see what happens if you might save yourself some heartache.