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| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 12:46pm |
I thought I was madly in love with my High School boyfriend.
| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 12:46pm |
I thought I was madly in love with my High School boyfriend.
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I did it so he could get in touch with me.
CL-Truewild1969
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See, you can't even post a simple question w/out everyone psycho analyzing you're character and finding hidden meaning in your agenda hence why I don't post much anymore unless I give advice.
Look, you contacted an old flame because you were curious - if you want to share it with Ronnie great and if you don't who really gives a rats you know what? You're not meeting the guy out or contemplating an affair - this was years ago and it's always fun to see what our first loves are up to in love and life in general--end of story. You already know what to do or what you want to do so do it :-)
Cheers,
SP
Thanks Peanut....my thoughts exactly.
Jodie
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Totally different scenario. You had a reunion coming up and that was warranted. If your boyfriend said that to you about seeing his Ex, and then told you that he wanted to google her and post a profile and email with her; then you would not have a problem??
There is nothing wrong about past relationships or talking about them; but believe me they are in the past for a reason!!
So, the issue with many of the poster's is, that I did this while dating Ronnie?
CL-Truewild1969
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So did you decide if you were going to tell or not tell Ronnie?
I have decided not to tell him.
CL-Truewild1969
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If contacting him answered a question in your mind then I think that was a very healthy move on your part.
I think everyone see's questions posted here through their own filter.
Jodie, this is NOT about seeking an old flame so you can brag about how great your life is, or how good you look. I'm not trying to be harsh, but you are seeking attention or reassurance (blatantly obvious). One of the things you mentioned in a previous post -- or was it the first bump you and Ronnie had, that you constantly need and/or seek reassurance that a partner is crazy about you ....almost to the point of exhaustedness (your words) . Ronnie seemingly handled the situation and asked for better communication. Apparently you fell in love with him at that moment. Seriously who could ask for a better man? (again, your words).
It seems that “constant reassurance” (insecurities) is lurking, and instead of facing Ronnie with it, you are going outside of the relationship. For someone with this type of insecurity, you are lying to yourself if you state that you would not have a problem if Ronnie did the same thing to you (google, create profile and send an email to an EX). Yeah, it’s nice an old high-school/college friend contacted you and it’s nice to have memories. Yes, Ronnie is wonderful (and you say that alot to the point of exhaustedness) but also pathetic that you think bragging to another man about your partner should make him feel good (this is a selfless act for reassurance -- considering Ronnie will never know). Drop the high-school/college behavior (giddyness/butterflies included) and have an honest discussion with Ronnie about what’s missing, what you need and/or how you are truly feeling. This relationship will not become a healthy committed one if you are not REAL about who you are.
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I am not getting it where I am at fault with anything.>>
It's a shame you believe your behavior should be different when Ronnie is not around. Your no fool either, you already know Ronnie's reaction if you were to ever tell him. (Remember the "bump") Reread your dating diary and previous posts, because you give the impression that you are crazy in love with such a wonderful man! Ironically, my gut told me differently and your behavior in this post proves it! You can hide and think not talking about your insecurities will make them go away, but trust me your insecurities in your actions will speak volumes.
Again this is my opinion ONLY and it's okay to disagree – you do what works for you!!!
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