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|Mon, 04-14-2003 - 1:35pm|
Hi: This is the first time I have posted on this board. I am looking for advice. About three months ago I began an email relationship with a fellow who I met on a website. We have been communicating, almost daily, since that time. We have both exchanged a couple of pictures and we seem to really get along well. We both have a similar mindset and goals. He has been nothing but a gentleman and we both feel a very strong connection. I am going on a trip in May and my layover is in a city that he is currently work in. Long story short, I have decided to extend my layover for a couple of days so we can meet. He seems quite excited and we are already trying to make plans. This all being said, my insecurities are driving me crazy. All of my worst insecurities regarding my physical appearance are coming out and instead of worrying about whether I will like him I am pre-occupied with whether he will find me attractive. Any words of advice for me. Outwardly, anyone who knows me thinks I am this very self-confident person and that the last thing I would worry about would be looks. Thanks for listening.