Interesting Situation - Need thoughts

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Registered: 11-05-2003
Interesting Situation - Need thoughts
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Sun, 08-06-2006 - 2:05pm

So, I've been a member of Match for a while, just kind of letting my profile go on cruise control. I have several pictures on my profile.

Well, for the past 7 months, I've had some flirting going on with a co-worker. We work opposite times of the day usually, so we actually only encounter each other at work once every couple of weeks. I admit, I'm very attracted to him, & it's interesting that I can flirt with him easily as normally I'm an awful flirt.

Well, today he winked at my Match profile. From my pictures, it's obvious that he knew it was me he was winking at.

Is this a not-so-subtle hint that he's been crushing on me too?

I admit I'm clueless. I'm actually interviewing to change jobs, so I might not even work with him in the near future, so that certainly wouldn't get in the way of starting something.

Thoughts?

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Registered: 05-19-2005
Sun, 08-06-2006 - 2:42pm

What's to think about? Sounds like a good deal to me :) I'd see where things went, especially if there's the likelihood of you switching jobs and not having the potential for any awkwardness at work.

You guys are clearly into each other. I say go for it!

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Registered: 03-05-2006
Sun, 08-06-2006 - 2:52pm

Id say that given the nature of your current contact at work, or lack thereof, you should give it a shot!

I'm imagining---him liking you at work but not ready to approach you for any number of reasons, then sigining on to Match only to discover you there!

If you don't feel comfortable 'dating' due to the work relationship, just take it verrrrry slow and have coffee on Sunday afternoon.

I bet he'll have a great story to tell you.

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Registered: 07-30-2006
Sun, 08-06-2006 - 3:08pm
I believe you miss out 100% on all chances you don't take....he works a different shift than you....Wink BACK!!

 

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