I'm confused.... in order to post on the cheating website, you would have to know the person... you don't know me, so therefore you can't post my picture... But I definately belong on that website... I speed to work everyday!
>I'm confused.... in order to post on the cheating website >you would have to know the person... you don't know me >so therefore you can't post my picture... But I definately >belong on that website... I speed to work everyday!
I am prepared to do what it takes! You already satisfy all of my rules.
I agree. I know this was intended to be a light-hearted thread, but that and moral issues aside, I would say that over 90% of the women posting pictures and details to that Website think they have the protection of anonymity. If a man took offence and wanted to pursue a libel case I can almost guarantee that technology would NOT be the limiting factor. With a good lawyer and a proper court order, anyone can be traced. If you doubt me, visit this site
Yes, in my defense this was started as a light hearted thread.
But I will be honest, I posted my EX's information on that website, and I don't feel bad for doing it. He was living a double life and lying to everyone. He cheated on me, denied having a relationship with me, he even denied having a child. He potentially could have given me a disease, since his "other" woman admitted to having an STD, but thankfully I have a clean bill of health. I noticed that there is a place where men who are on that website CAN post something in there defense... I posted my EX's information, not out of retribution (b/c he will never know about it)- but because I think what these people are doing is right. I know some people on this board have made comments about not being labeled for their actions, and they believe that one action does not define a person. I agree, but this was not a "one" time thing for my EX, nor do I think he is capable of having a monogomious (sp?) relationship in the future... but that is HIM. I don't know if he learned from his mistakes, only time can tell. But in the meantime, I can keep unsuspecting women as safe as possible, by posting his information.
Cheating, in general, is a very sensitive topic for me. I do not take it lightly nor do I sit back and watch it idelly (sp?) happen. No friend of mine is going to cheat on their SO, or be cheated on... as long as I am in the picture. I know the pain it causes and it is no picnic....
I can understand how you feel. If there was a website for “Emotionally abusive women” I would probably feel compelled to post pictures of one of my Ex girlfriends. I personally don’t like cheaters and subscribe to the “once a cheater always a cheater” philosophy. However, in some cases there are extenuating circumstances which make me think this hard-line approach is unjustified.
Thanks for your help with the spelling there,... I was just caught up in the moment, I didn't feel like using my spell check... =) I guess you're one "of those"- who have to always have the last "word"... Good luck with that... hope you find someone capatible with your intelligence.
>hope you find someone capatible with your intelligence.
You humble me.
>I guess you're one "of those"- who have to always have the last "word"
I don't need to always have the last word but I do find it difficult to end a debate/discussion until I have said everything I want to. This is a habit I am trying to change because it can be annoying to people involved.
I'm sorry if I made you feel bad. Now I have said everything.
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I'm confused.... in order to post on the cheating website, you would have to know the person... you don't know me, so therefore you can't post my picture... But I definately belong on that website... I speed to work everyday!
>I'm confused.... in order to post on the cheating website
>you would have to know the person... you don't know me
>so therefore you can't post my picture... But I definately
>belong on that website... I speed to work everyday!
I am prepared to do what it takes! You already satisfy all of my rules.
And as I've said before, just because you've made a mistake in your past does not mean you should be labeled for life and avoided at all costs.
I agree. I know this was intended to be a light-hearted thread, but that and moral issues aside, I would say that over 90% of the women posting pictures and details to that Website think they have the protection of anonymity. If a man took offence and wanted to pursue a libel case I can almost guarantee that technology would NOT be the limiting factor. With a good lawyer and a proper court order, anyone can be traced. If you doubt me, visit this site
http://www.law.duke.edu/journals/dltr/articles/2002dltr0004.html
Yes, in my defense this was started as a light hearted thread.
But I will be honest, I posted my EX's information on that website, and I don't feel bad for doing it. He was living a double life and lying to everyone. He cheated on me, denied having a relationship with me, he even denied having a child. He potentially could have given me a disease, since his "other" woman admitted to having an STD, but thankfully I have a clean bill of health. I noticed that there is a place where men who are on that website CAN post something in there defense... I posted my EX's information, not out of retribution (b/c he will never know about it)- but because I think what these people are doing is right. I know some people on this board have made comments about not being labeled for their actions, and they believe that one action does not define a person. I agree, but this was not a "one" time thing for my EX, nor do I think he is capable of having a monogomious (sp?) relationship in the future... but that is HIM.
I don't know if he learned from his mistakes, only time can tell. But in the meantime, I can keep unsuspecting women as safe as possible, by posting his information.
Cheating, in general, is a very sensitive topic for me. I do not take it lightly nor do I sit back and watch it idelly (sp?) happen. No friend of mine is going to cheat on their SO, or be cheated on... as long as I am in the picture. I know the pain it causes and it is no picnic....
kae_n_me,
I can understand how you feel. If there was a website for “Emotionally abusive women” I would probably feel compelled to post pictures of one of my Ex girlfriends. I personally don’t like cheaters and subscribe to the “once a cheater always a cheater” philosophy. However, in some cases there are extenuating circumstances which make me think this hard-line approach is unjustified.
According to: http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/dictionaryhome.aspx
monogomious (sp?) should be: monogamous
idelly (sp?) should be: ideally
Take care
I guess you're one "of those"- who have to always have the last "word"... Good luck with that... hope you find someone capatible with your intelligence.
>hope you find someone capatible with your intelligence.
You humble me.
>I guess you're one "of those"- who have to always have the last "word"
I don't need to always have the last word but I do find it difficult to end a debate/discussion until I have said everything I want to. This is a habit I am trying to change because it can be annoying to people involved.
I'm sorry if I made you feel bad. Now I have said everything.
Take care.
It just gave us insight as to what kind of person you are.
And yes it is annoying.
=)
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