International OLD

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Registered: 02-27-2010
International OLD
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Mon, 03-08-2010 - 1:24am
Alrighty, the clueless guy is back with even more questions. As I've been taught that putting all your eggs into one basket is a no no, I've taken that into consideration and have expanded my search and reach.

So, I've talked to a girl from Japan and she only speaks Japanese. I can speak the language since I studied it back in college. We talked about a lot of things and from our old ghetto jobs to everything in between. But I didn't go anywhere near sex or taboo subjects or any of that sort. She seemed to be enjoying the conversations since she laughed quite a bit.

What I was wondering was, how should I proceed? We have moved beyond using the dating site's email and I have her actual email now and plan to write to her. But this is where I'm wondering what should I be doing? Thanks for the help in advance!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 03-22-2010 - 12:21pm

I'd be really interested to know what you think makes a woman "manly." Like not subservient? Has her own opinions? Maybe that's not what you mean, but somehow it comes across. And I just believe that a lot of American men have this illusion that Asian woman are meek, subservient types, which since I have known a lot of Asian women, I know that is definitely not the case.

As far as not being attracted to heavy women, well, that seems to be pretty common, even though you are a little blunt about it, but if you meet people IRL, you can obviously see if they are fat or not.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 4:43am
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 4:53am
AS far as fat go back a generation her mom and her grandma you should look at. Unless you live in a are that has a fairly large Japanese community and are willing to be around for her then things might work out. Be very cozant of social classes. They are very important in ASia. I suggest taking vacations and further language training, Watching Japanese programs to hear the spoken word might help.
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