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is it cheating?
| Wed, 11-02-2005 - 6:15pm |
i met a guy online about 2 months ago. since then we have met and talk on the phone practically everyday for hours on end. he lives kind of far away so i really dont see him often, however. i really like him and im pretty sure he feels all the same feelings. he tells me im beautiful and other things like a boyfriend would. this weekend my friends and i plan on going out to some parties. i really want to just have fun, make out with some guys maybe. my guy and i have never really discussed an "us" so i was wondering if this is technically cheating? i dont really think it is but i dont want to ruin a good thing. any comments are welcome!

As far as I know...typically in online dating, you can feel free to date as many people as you want until someone brings up the topic of a relationship. Has he called you his girlfriend, or brought it up in any other way?
The best way to answer this question is to ask yourself how you'd feel if he did the same...would you be okay with him making out with some girl?
Also, and this is just me wondering, are you really interested in him if you're planning on making out with other guys? I mean, it's one thing for it to just happen at a party, but to plan on it is a different thing. Just wondering!
Alyssa