it doesn't make it any better...

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Registered: 05-27-2005
it doesn't make it any better...
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Sat, 07-02-2005 - 2:46pm
It doesn't really make me feel better to have everybody tell me that I shouldn't email him and he's not interested because he didn't IM me like he said he would. I wish it did help but I'm still wondering why. We really did seem to get along well. Even when we were IMing, we were actually thinking the same things. When he would type something, I would be typing something very similar, it was like we were reading each other's minds or something..lol. I thought that might've been some kind of sign, it never happened before. Apparently not though.


Edited 7/2/2005 2:49 pm ET ET by dream_angel2005
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 5:26pm

dream angel - what may seem like a connection to you doesn't always register in the other person's head. It sounds like that is waht happened here. Sometimes guys do not know what to look for - the connection to them may be a hot blond with big boobs. Or a connection may be a book worm. You just never know until you see the guy following through. Too often we make assumptions and from assumptions, expectations are born. Just remember to not make assumptions until some time has passed.

to back you up - it has happened many times over to everyone on this board. and i'm pretty sure there was a real connection between you two - but if the guy isn't discerning enough to see it - then its useless.

Kepe at it. you will find a guy who recognizes a connection - just taks some practice.