Is it Me?

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Is it Me?
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Sun, 07-24-2005 - 11:14pm

Last week, I started talking with a guy on Jdate. He seemed nice enough. A bit rough around the edges, but I like that.

He asked me several times to meet up, and I said no (it was all in terms of meeting at his place to give him a massage). He whined but was ok with that.

We were supposed to meet up last night. We spoke earlier in the day, and were still on. He said something about both of us looking like our pictures. I told him that I've changed my hair since the picture (6 months old), but other than that, it was the same. (I cut my hair and colored it. It was colored in the picture, too, but my roots were so long, and my hair was up, so you couldn't tell LOL) He was disappointed that I'd cut my hair, but it grows back, right? And that's EXACTLY what I said to him.

He totally disappeared. When I called him (per his request) to confirm, he ignored my call.

Today, I IMed him to say WTF? He said I misrepresented myself, and he hates that. All over a hair style?

Is it me, or is he looking for an excuse?

I know it's best -- hell, if he IS this whateverheis, he's not for me anyway -- but seriously! What AM I doing WRONG?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: gij75
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 4:52pm
You're not doing anything wrong. Any guy who says you misrepresented yourself because you changed your hair style and didn't immediately update your profile has serious issues. You're better off without him. No doubt in my mind about that.

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