Is it worth my time?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2004
Is it worth my time?
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Tue, 02-15-2005 - 12:34pm
If I'm looking for a serious relationship, is it worth my time to pursue someone on line that emailed me and said he doesn't look for relationships, is looking for a friend to hang out with and is basically just doing this out of curiosity. It sounds like he's extremely busy with work and school and this is the first time he's ever done OLD. He sounds interesting and it seems like we have some things in common. But I just don't want to start anything if he ultimately isn't looking for a serious relationship.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:13pm

No Way!!!

If a guy says he is not looking for a relationship, he isn't...move on.

You or no one else will change their mind...been there, done that...got the t-shirt.

You are setting yourself up for heartache.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:50pm
Is he single or has a wife or GF living with him? Sounds like he already has someone and just talking to another women to kill time (possibly his significant other can't provide). A guy recently winked at me and I was thinking about telling him the similar thing, as this guy sounded interesting, but I have someone else I met online that I regularly date. I think you should look for someone who WANTS a relationship, if you don't want to end up dissappointed.

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