It's been awhile for me - an update...

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Registered: 02-07-2005
It's been awhile for me - an update...
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 8:10pm

Hi everyone,

I haven't been here in awhile and just wanted to say hi. Life has been really crazy for me and filled with many changes, so some things had to go out of my life for awhile and one was being on the computer so much. I have been looking for a new job, but haven't found a good one yet.

I am moving this weekend and looking forward to a new location, although I am staying in the same city. I have been doing Match and Yahoo Personals, but am only a paying member on Match. I had revised my profile a couple of times and yet mainly seem to be appealing to the guys that are older and out of my age range, which has gotten me down sometimes. I still have the 20 somethings replying though on a regular basis, but booty calls aren't my thing. I rarely get interest from guys in their 40's who are my age since they mainly want the much younger ladies, but that's reality.

Yet I have been dating two guys for the past 2 months who are about 6 and 7 years younger than myself and they are fun, but there is no potential for "dating exclusively" on my part or theirs. So I've mainly been filling time and having fun with them I guess. But I have still been meeting other guys and hoping that the wonderful guy will come along, as we all are I guess, since my goal is to find someone that I want to have in my life for the duration.

So I'm hoping that the move will be the catalyst to get my life going in a different direction. My subscription is almost up on Match and I think I'll take a break from it for a little while, which I know many of us need to do every now and then. I was hoping to have a great guy in my life over the holidays this year, but I'm not sure if that's going to happen.

I hope everyone is doing good and having great dates! Cupcake I see you are still with Tall Man, that's great! Well, take care everyone...

Sunshine