It's Bi Day!

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Registered: 08-07-2003
It's Bi Day!
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Thu, 05-12-2005 - 8:01pm

Bizarre day!

First, I get an email from a guy who I have traded a couple of emails with and who was looking promising. With anticipation I opened the email . . . only to find that he thought it was time to tell me that he is bisexual, was '95%' straight but liked to get together with guys a few times a year and hoped I would be okay with that (um, NOOO, I do not share! - I thanked him for his honesty and told him I thought it best if we both moved on).

Then I stop at the grocery store on the way home, and out of the blue the woman in line in front of me starts a conversation with me about the veggies I was buying. At first I just thought she was being friendly, but then she gave me an unmistakably flirtatious look, so I'm thinking wow, I misinterpreted THAT. Then I notice that she has an engagement ring on!

What are the odds?! lol

p.s. the bi guy said that he tried to explain in his profile that he is bi but that match wouldn't allow it - good grief, is that really true?! Makes no sense at all.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 05-12-2005 - 8:40pm

Wacky. The timing is uncanny! I guess some people just can't be satisfied with one or the other, they want to have multiple relationships, or casual others on the side. It irks me that the two-timing bi's like this, give the rest of us bi's a bad name. Not all bisexuals are like this, some (like myself) are capable of monogamy - and prefer it. :)

The only way I could think that match wouldn't allow it, is if he wrote something overly explicit. Welllll, at least you found out sooner than later, right?

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 8:45am

I agree, PM.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 3:52pm

Hi Ginger....


Pianoguy (who is NOT bisexual)....got a quick glimpse of your brief ivillage profile.

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Registered: 08-07-2003
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 11:06pm
I agree. The funny thing is that he said he doesn't cheat b/c he has always done it with his gf's permission (or participation!) . . . I suppose in a literal sense that makes it not cheating but STILL . . .