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Its feels weird now ...
| Mon, 01-15-2007 - 2:48am |
to talk about other dating prospects here to you guys, after all our discussions about my current relationship! But here goes .... lol
I am still on Match only b/c my year isnt up yet (i think it is in Feb) ... I dont know that I will renew, actually, no, I wont b/c at SOME point in the next few months I will expect things to go one way or the other with Carlos, if neither of us has met anyone else, so I can always re-join at a later date, if needed.


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He definitely sounds interesting and he seems to be looking for a friend with potential for more rather than the love of his life. Rationally, I think you should go ahead and meet if you get there but emotionally, I know if I was involved to the extent you are with someone, I wouldn't be interested if Brad Pitt asked me out.
Go with your gut. You seem to have very good instincts.
Brad Pitt? Not so much ... but George Clooney ... I would throw Carlos overboard!
He sounds terrific. I say that you should go for it. You cannot be sure that Carlos is the one until you check out other prospects. And if he isn't the one, it is good to know that too. :)
Good luck!
Elsa
I agree with this poster. I could be wrong here (probably am) but I do notice you seem to be going after men that aren’t really available for a relationship i.e. Carlos and now this guy – pattern?
He sounds pretty awesome....How is it that you find all of these really great guys - perhaps it is time for me to move back to the Northeast...?
All I get are guys that think my hair is sturnishing..and love the fact that I have no gaps in my teeth!! OY - arent those requirements if you live in the hill country of the Ozarks...? (No offense to those that live there of course!)
He sounds great - and my advice...see what happens. I mean you may meet him and still not feel that jolt like you do with Carlos...but keep your options open girlfriend!
Cheers
Sarah
I agree that Carlos sounds great and I agree she should see what develops with him at this point – its been 5 months which is a substantial amount of time to decide if you want to be exclusive. My only concern is he doesn't sound optomistic that he will have a family in the future (so I say find out more about that and where his head is at).
I just have to laugh ... can you IMAGINE is Carlos came across this board? CRIPES! lol
Again, hope I’m not sounding negative not my intentions but this guy say he probably doesn’t want kids – that means he doesn’t – so what is the point?
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