Its feels weird now ...
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Its feels weird now ...
| Mon, 01-15-2007 - 2:48am |
to talk about other dating prospects here to you guys, after all our discussions about my current relationship! But here goes .... lol
I am still on Match only b/c my year isnt up yet (i think it is in Feb) ... I dont know that I will renew, actually, no, I wont b/c at SOME point in the next few months I will expect things to go one way or the other with Carlos, if neither of us has met anyone else, so I can always re-join at a later date, if needed.


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Not having another child isnt a total deal breaker for me. The more time that goes on, I could be ok with it. Yes, if I could have the choice overall right now, I would say I would want one. But as I am now 39 & my life with dd is pretty simple, it would be prett easy NOT to have one, lol.
Well, I wish you good luck with it all - I'm sure you'll have more good stories to post in the near future ;-)
Also I agree with your statement that when 2 people are really into each other and are ambivilant about marriage and children a lot of the times they will come to terms with wanting that with each other because of the connection and happiness. People do change their minds sometimes. I don't think I was the one for any of these other guys I dated so that's probably why it ended. I believe the statement "if it's meant to be it will be". I do wish you luck again with everything and all that matters is that you are happy and it appears to be that you are :-)
Awww, Im so sorry about that relationship that ended b/c he didnt want children. Yes, absolutely ... if I didnt have my daughter, then there is NO way I would be with anyone who didnt want a baby. Of course ... if I was this age (39) & had no partner & no children ... I would have already visited the ol' sperm bank & done it on my own
Well, that is definately an interesting turn of events with Carlos. Sometimes it takes certain things like this to push the guy in the right direction and it does make you feel good huh when they get upset or jealous over something with you and they are not normally the type to get that way :-) I think you are right and it might be headed in that direction. Seems to me like he doesn't want to give you up to another man ;-) Keep us posted on how tonight goes. I think you have a lot of people on this board rooting for you lol.
Hey Rebecca,
I've been wanting to reply to your post, but had to wrap my head around what I think is going on..
I'm sure you will do what you feel is right for you...
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