Its feels weird now ...
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Its feels weird now ...
| Mon, 01-15-2007 - 2:48am |
to talk about other dating prospects here to you guys, after all our discussions about my current relationship! But here goes .... lol
I am still on Match only b/c my year isnt up yet (i think it is in Feb) ... I dont know that I will renew, actually, no, I wont b/c at SOME point in the next few months I will expect things to go one way or the other with Carlos, if neither of us has met anyone else, so I can always re-join at a later date, if needed.


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Edited 1/16/2007 4:40 pm ET by lovinhockey17
Smile,
Deirdre
Dear Abby ...
He does sound really great however I agree with you. If he's wanting all of that he can have that.
"on the other hand, in a way I was thinking afterwards, if he thought there WAS anything possible long term for us, why would be BE so pensive about "missing out on marriage & family" AND why would he be saying it to ME? Except
Thinking more about this...
Didn't you say before that you and he had agreed you were going to have a talk?
"Maybe he is committment phobic"???
You're right, its not an intentional "mind trip" by him, Im sure. & I am pretty sure that its NOT that Im not a potential candidate, or not completely ruled out anyway - i think its just that he STILL, as he admits, regrets not having made a committement to someone in the past, & STILL isnt sure he ever will be able to. & was voicing that. He isnt really the type, i dont THINK, who would intentionally test me. He's usually a very open, up front person - in fact he often says to me that "i get much more out of you emotionally in email than I do in person"
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