Its me again.... Im here...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Its me again.... Im here...
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Fri, 04-01-2005 - 10:08am

I read that some posted a board asking where was I and how my online date went.
For the happiness of most of you, I did not go to the date but not because I did not want or the guy did not want, because the day I was going to meet the guy on Sunday, I was just returning from some days off during the holy week. Sitll I planned to meet him that same I return from those days off, but I was too tired to go and also I could not go because that same day I received a phone call fromm y boss telling me that the next day we need to go on a local business trip so I had to start packing again while I was unpacking from the local trip I just returned. But the guy did call me at home like one hour after I returned from my grandma[s house for the days off. I could not answer him, my dad did and the guy told my dad that please I should give him a call at this hotel. I called him like 2 hours after, but he was not in his room so I left him a message on his room answering machine. On that message I told him that unfortunately we could not meet, because I had to start packing again for a trip the next morning and besides It was kind of late to go out and I returned from my grandma[s house around 6pm.

Two days after he emailed me from Canada, since he returned to Canada the next day of our supposed meeting and told me bummer we did not meet each other, but he understood that I was going out again on a local trip and also that I returned late from another trip.

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 12:27pm

Hi Starlettos,

I'm glad you didn't meet with him... just too many negatives with this guy being married, living in another country, etc. I know you thought it was a friends thing, but I bet he had more like sex on his mind. From the sounds of it everything worked out for the better.

Good luck to you in finding a good guy that is available for you.

Sunshine

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 3:37pm
Thank you for posting.

 

 

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 7:52pm
I have to disagree with you. In any moment the objective for this guy to meet me was to have sex, in any moment, he never mentioned me or even hinted me anything that his purpose for meeting me was that. He just wanted to meet me in person for the first time that is all. Why is it hard to believe? Cant two people just meet in this case he wanted to meet his online friend for the first time, just for a coffee and that is it? Why people always think the worse thing? There are nice people in this world too, not everyone is bad or psychos or perverts. And also my intention with this guy was never love or infatuation, just friendship and also Im not looking for guys to date on line, just online friendship, I mean a friend that is it. Im not in a hurry to date anyone at this moment, Im single, I don’t have a boyfriend and Im not looking to for guys online to date either. Just to be pen pals or email pals that is it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2004
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 8:00pm
whatever.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2005
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 8:06pm
LMAO
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 9:06pm

I tell you this little sound bite just fits so many situations...

http://tinyurl.com/4m53d