I've given up

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I've given up
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Sun, 04-13-2003 - 8:20pm
I just can't handle this anymore...I'm breaking up with B, I'm so sick of him not being around and him not being here for me. I've made myself available every second that he had the time for me, but I'm not getting that in return and I just can't do it anymore. I'm tired of being sad and crying over him. I just can't do it anymore :( I keep listening to our song..."This Years Love" by David Gray and just crying. There's a line in the song that goes "this years lovin better last" and I just keep thinking that ours didn't last, its already over and it had just begun. I'm just so sad right now :'(

Lindsay

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Sun, 04-13-2003 - 10:44pm
ohh sweetie, im sorry your sad tonight **hugs**

I dont know quite what else to say. **hugs** thats about all i can help you with tonight.

Charlene
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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 9:04am
A hug for you Lindsay...be good to yourself and start by putting yourself first. You deserve nothing but the best.


Kelly

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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 10:45am
Lindsay, I'm so sorry for you, I wish their was something that could be said that would take your sadness away, but there is nothing. You will find that the sadness will finally ease, the tears will cease and the days will be brighter. I do understand how you feel, more than i wish i did, you deserve someone who is going to make the time to be with you, make the time for you that you make for him and girl, your going to find it, he's out there, just waiting to meet you. so my heart goes out to you and i send hugs out to you also. Take care.

Vicki

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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 11:19am
Linds, I am so sorry you are going through this. Remember it is not your fault and you are doing what you feel is best. I am here for you sweetie, it will all get better.


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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 12:48pm
Oh, lindsey. Im sorry he is not giving you what you need right now. It seems to me, boys tend to do this to girls more than we like to admit. I would hope you can make a definite decision with B, and stick to it. Moving on fromt this will take time I see,but once you do, I think you will be alot better off. Sometimes in the midst of the confusion we do not understand why things dont work out, but after time passes we look back and it all makes sense. Just hang in there and we will all stand by your decision. We are here for you, so lean on us. BIG HUGS!!!

Gail
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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 2:50pm
I'm very sorry to hear that and I hope you get to spend warm and loving time with your family and friends on Easter.
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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 3:08pm
Awwww Lindsay .. sorry your down!

Keep your chin up girl, I think you're making the right choice by thinking about what YOU need. You will find someone to treat you right & none of this will matter .. so in the meantime enjoy the college life & HAVE FUN!! :-)