Just blocked a big old nerd ... lol

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Just blocked a big old nerd ... lol
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Fri, 07-07-2006 - 11:11am

Ya know, it doesnt pay to be NICE!


I totally had NO attraction to this older, nerdy guy. I told him that I was really busy right now & would contact HIM when my plate was "less full".

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 11:14am

I guess I wonder why you mislead him in the first place? I would take someone at their word who said they were busy...not take that as a "hint" that they weren't interested.

Now, not responding...THAT is a hint, LOL!

Sheri

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 1:30pm

Well, b/c at 1st, i was in the "maybe give someone a chance whom I am not attracted to" mode.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 7:18pm

I think you should have just said you weren't interested... I mean I know how many folks believe in being nice by being evasive, but sometimes a "Sorry, we're not a match..." works so much better... ;o)

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 8:17am
Yeah, I've done the same thing - written back to someone I was "so-so" on the attraction, and then when they wanted to meet, I'd get cold feet.

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