Just curious

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Registered: 02-25-2005
Just curious
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Wed, 06-29-2005 - 6:02pm

Just curious.......

My brother and new sil they'll be married in a couple of days in the Caribbean...... You would not believe the amount of women who are trying to sleep with him before his(their)big day.

What would make a woman(an-ex) degrade herself to such a level to try to sleep with a man when she knows he is about to be married? I know men and women view sex differently that is why I am not addressing the man's roll when the roles are reversed.

Does she think she could possibly change his mind? Is she doing it to one day blackmail him? I really wonder what would make some women go this far....

And no, he has not indulged any of the requests, he is smittened by his so to be wife...... he just shakes his head in disbelief. He did say that if he knew he would get this much action, he would have said he was getting married years ago.

Curious to hear your thoughts.

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Registered: 07-24-2004
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 6:08pm

I have been to many Bachelorette parties where men HOUNDED the bride-to-be for a last minute fling. The first time I saw this, I thought, wow, he's really bold. She's getting MARRIED, after all.

But it has happened so many times that I have to believe that there are some women who are taking these men up on their offers... the male grapevine must be telling them that soon-to-be-married women are good for a one-night stand!