Just need to vent a bit
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| Sun, 12-10-2006 - 3:09pm |
I just sent a "thanks but no thanks" email to a guy I'd been out with 2x (and immediately blocked him so I don't have to deal with any responses). We had dinner Friday night and I had a good time, until the very end when he kissed me and ended up sliming me with way too much tongue. I instantly got "the ick" but I was trying to work through it and thinking, well, maybe I can teach him to be a better kisser. So I was on the fence.
Well, he called me not once but twice yesterday, after I'd told him Friday night that I'm singing in 2 concerts this weekend and therefore things were busy for me--I was out running errands pretty much all day yesterday so I missed his first call and then I didn't pick up when he called again because I was annoyed at him not giving me a chance to call back. So then this morning I get an email basically accusing me of being rude because I didn't return his calls on HIS schedule. I wrote back that I could only conclude that since he couldn't even give me a day's grace, esp when I'd told him I had a busy weekend, that we're not a good match.
Oh, that irritated me! Of course, the fact that I was on the fence about him anyway didn't help, but even so--I hate it when someone doesn't respect that you might have other things you want to do other than call them back immediately. I might have worked through the kissing thing, but him badgering me to call him made it impossible for me to do so.
Anyway, I'm now down to 4 prospects from 6 just a couple days ago (I decided I wasn't interested in a 2nd date with one of the guys I met a couple weeks ago), and 3 of them I haven't even met yet so who knows if anything will pan out. And of course the guy I have met in person, I really like (we've been out 5-6 times now), but he's being lukewarm.
Isn't dating fun???? Ugh.
Sheri

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Coolas,
I know how you feel about these guys that come on strong pursue a woman to ends of the earth and then just vanish. I don't get it, but it seems to be a pattern for men these days IRL and OLD.
Good luck,
YG
YG
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