Just some thoughts...
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| Fri, 02-25-2005 - 2:10pm |
As I was sitting in the University library this morning, my thoughts wandered from homework momentarily to how my OLD experiences have been thus far. Its definately been interesting to say the least, however nothing that has led to a first meet. Just lots of guys that want to play the email game with me.
I started to think about what it is that I hope to accomplish by making my photos and profile public etc. What I came up with was that I (just like everyone else on this board) is hoping to find that one in a million special person that I can click with on all levels of a relationship. Its a very big world out there! My optimism about meeting Mr.Right keeps me in a continual state of searching.
In my mind I have a very clear idea of the type of man that would complete the 'big picture'. In the recent week, I've actually taken some time to identify the negotiables & non-negotiables (deal breakers) that aid me in identifying my compatible soul mate.
Of the men that I have received winks and emails from, my "ideal guy" has not been among them.
Another thought that also crossed my mind is that perhaps the kind of guy that I am looking for maybe doesn't even go online ...?... I guess I will never know.
To all the ladies& men on the board here is a thought provoking question, "What qualities or characteristics attract you to a man /woman ?"
I'll start this informal thread by saying that a physically attractive man in a business suit with a sincere, warm and charming personality is an initial draw for me. ( I find that to be absolutely hot).
Any thoughts from you all ?

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Lisa...
It depends upon the woman I'm seeing and the amount of times she puts herself on exhibition!
Pianoguy
Hi Everybody!
Do one or two of you have a
"3. Can accept a man's occasional bad (or sometimes naughty) behavior without turning into a "mother-figure" and lecturing us about it!"
Then same goes for us too. I think this should be off the list because both sexes can display immature behavior.
Lisa
Cuddling is not manly and I want a man. I think they only say cuddle because they think that's what women want to hear. I bet if they actually timed how often they've spent cuddling on the couch in their life it would be one movie per girl at the beginning of dating her and that's it.
Lisa
>>I bet if they actually timed how often they've spent cuddling on the couch in their life it would be one movie per girl at the beginning of dating her and that's it.
You really think so? You never had a LTR that included lots of couch cuddles? It's one of my favorite things, just hanging out watching a movie or whatever... but then I'm kind of a homebody so that works for me. I couldn't stay for long with someone who ISN'T a cuddler.
I'm so not a couch cuddler. Sounds boring....lol. Sorry.
Lisa
hey, that works for me!
Any other suggestions? We can start an OLD dictionary!
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