Just some thoughts...

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Registered: 05-31-2003
Just some thoughts...
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Fri, 02-25-2005 - 2:10pm

As I was sitting in the University library this morning, my thoughts wandered from homework momentarily to how my OLD experiences have been thus far. Its definately been interesting to say the least, however nothing that has led to a first meet. Just lots of guys that want to play the email game with me.
I started to think about what it is that I hope to accomplish by making my photos and profile public etc. What I came up with was that I (just like everyone else on this board) is hoping to find that one in a million special person that I can click with on all levels of a relationship. Its a very big world out there! My optimism about meeting Mr.Right keeps me in a continual state of searching.
In my mind I have a very clear idea of the type of man that would complete the 'big picture'. In the recent week, I've actually taken some time to identify the negotiables & non-negotiables (deal breakers) that aid me in identifying my compatible soul mate.
Of the men that I have received winks and emails from, my "ideal guy" has not been among them.
Another thought that also crossed my mind is that perhaps the kind of guy that I am looking for maybe doesn't even go online ...?... I guess I will never know.

To all the ladies& men on the board here is a thought provoking question, "What qualities or characteristics attract you to a man /woman ?"

I'll start this informal thread by saying that a physically attractive man in a business suit with a sincere, warm and charming personality is an initial draw for me. ( I find that to be absolutely hot).

Any thoughts from you all ?


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Sun, 02-27-2005 - 5:35pm

JH.... Spooning (my definition) refers to falling asleep in bed while in the (my) chest to (her) back position. Cuddling (my definition) refers to face-to-face holding while laying down and talking without an expectation of sex.

Does anyone else think the same? Or do I need to redefine my definitions.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 5:48pm
I agree. A lot of women reference cuddling on the couch; I think that's where the guys get it from.
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Sun, 02-27-2005 - 6:19pm

I agree!! I couldn't be with someone who DIDN'T cuddle, either. If we're watching a movie or something, we had better be entwined ;-)!

Sheri

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Sun, 02-27-2005 - 6:23pm

I agree with your definition of spooning, but cuddling encompasses a lot more than laying down in each other's arms, IMO. Having a guy's arm around you while you watch TV would count as cuddling, for example.

Sheri

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Mon, 02-28-2005 - 5:45pm

JH....


Why does pianoguy get this crazy image of

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Mon, 02-28-2005 - 8:04pm
Mmmm, ice cream.
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Mon, 02-28-2005 - 9:02pm

With one guy I've

Linda

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