Latest psychotic date- Jocelyn Lecter

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Latest psychotic date- Jocelyn Lecter
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Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:00am

After 3 months of not going on a single date; here's a synopsis of my latest debacle..

We agree to meet at Starbucks last night after conversing for awhile.

I show up and she's late. I'm used to this.

She walks in the door and she's at least 40lbs heavier than her photo. She still looks ok to me but I'm already worried about what's to come.

We greet and her hands are sweating profusely. We shake and she sits down. We exchange greetings and I start to lead the conversation. Meanwhile, below the table I'm trying to get that sweat off my right hand; it's driving me crazy.. She breaks me off mid-sentence and asks if we can go somewhere else. I was going to offer to buy her coffee when she cut me off. I look puzzled and it will get even more bizarre. I asked her where she wanted to go and she said verbatim: "Why don't we go to your car?" I'm completely puzzled and asked what she would like to do in the car. Her response... "have a little fun." Then she said that it would have to be quick because she was still married and her divorce wasn't yet finalized. "I'm also bi-sexual and I hope that's not a turn-off to you" she said. By now I really needed a coffee so I asked her if she wanted one. She said no so I went and got me one and as I stood up, I could take it no more. I told her that it was nice meeting but that we weren't a good match in person and certainly not a good match at coitus. Her reaction was this... "I wasn't really serious about any of this so I'm relieved you said that." Then she got up and left. I followed her out and noticed she got into a car with another guy. Guys/Gals: I think I met a pyscho....

Back to the drawing board

TT

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:09am

ok, now how do you meet these people? Do you pre-screen at all? Do you get into the intimate chit-chat that might lead them to think it's ok to have these types of meetings?


With a guy in the car outside, there are only two things that could happen:



  1. You were about to be rolled (most likely)

  2. You were about to have a guy come knock on your window while you were having "fun"

Gee - I wonder where she would have asked to go when you got into the car? I bet someplace lonely and deserted.


That's a really odd story and I'm not sure I'd throw her in the psychotic pile if she had someone with her in the car. If she hadn't asked you about going outside and being friendly I might have bought that she had someone come along for safety. I think that unlikely though and you were probably being setup for either a 3-way or robbery of some sort.


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Registered: 07-21-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:16am
Oh my goodness TT!!!!!

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Registered: 07-18-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:10am
OMG....you win!
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Registered: 03-17-2005
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:13am

I hope that's a fictitious name in the discussion title.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:14am
Man, where do you find these people?
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:16am
I believe that's a play on "Hanibal Lecter".
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Registered: 02-15-2005
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:18am
He should have used Hannabelle Lecter.


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Registered: 07-03-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:32am
good one!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 10:34am
you definitely win for best story! Oh my gosh, that is bizarre and scary.
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Registered: 05-31-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 11:02am
OMG, sounds like you could totally use some Trauma debriefing after going through that. Yuck !
And yes, I'm inclined to ask the same question as the others have, how and where are you meeting these people ????? I'm wondering if you shouldn't rethink about the type of 'old' site you are using...

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