lawyer vs or

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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 9:41am

A little update.
I met the OR guy for apps and drinks yesterday. Don't want to date him. He was so focused on himself that there was no place for anyone else. He ordered wine and I asked for water so the waitress leaves and he started squeezing lemon into my water and I thought "hmmm.." then he TAKES my water as it was his!!!! I didn't say anything. The waitress comes back and says 'de he take your water? :) It was pretty funny because he was so engrossed in himself and talking about himself that he didn't even noticed that I had no drink!!!!
So much for that.
Later in the evening I had a date with my lawyer man and it was nice. We went for a walk, stopped for some wine/beer, walked some more. The after party was great too ;) I spent the night at his and it was nice. I notice that he always have this thinking look on his face though but he treats me VERY nice when we are together. I suspect that he probably is keeping his options open but I don't think he is sleeping with anyone else. Anyhow, I can't see him until Wed because my little boy is coming home from his dad's.
LM (lawyer man) and I have a date on Wednesday! It's a long time...

Edited 7/8/2005 9:42 am ET ET by ivos2004




Edited 7/8/2005 9:44 am ET ET by ivos2004

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Registered: 03-18-2005
In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:25am

Glad you had fun; bummer about self absorbed man - if only he knew, LOL.

Why the rush into sleeping with him; it's only date two correct? Why not see if you have what it takes to be in a relationship first before bringing that into the equation you know. I have a feeling in 2 or 3 more dates you'll have a better idea. I've always said this, sex is easy and relationships are not.

Good for you though if you can have sex and not get attached.

Cheers,
SP

 
 
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Registered: 10-27-2003
In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:40am

Nothing like sitting thru a meet with a self-absorbed man. I've always wondered why they don't just date themselves. LOL I'm glad that your evening went well with Lawyer man Ivosh. Hopefully, things will continue to progress at a nice even pace. Keep us posted.

All the best,
Libra

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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 11:05am
No, no, I have been seeing him for a couple of weeks now and pretty intensely.
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 11:07am
I think it's less than 2 wks but it's getting close to it. I slept with him because I wanted to :)


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In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 11:25am

Good for you! I hate that whole "timeline" thing you wanted to and you did....

So details??? LOL just kidding.

I had a date with a guy once that was so self absorbed, I don't think I said maybe 2 sentences the entire dinner, if I did I would start to say something, it would remind him of another "story" and he'd interrupt and ramble on, at the end of the night I was so busy staring at my cuticles and yawning I was so excited to just get out of there. He called the next day and left me a message about how much fun he had on the date, I felt like saying, that's because you like yourself so much you were basically on a date with yourself no wonder you had fun.

Needless to say I emailed him and said I wasn't interested in seeing him again.

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In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 12:00pm
Oh ok, thanks for the clarification - I was wondering why you were checking up on him on line after one date - makes more sense now, ha!
 
 
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 12:46pm
Err. I think he still keeps his options open. I don't really want to be the one bringing the "exclusive" talk. I would like to stick it out a couple more weeks and see what happens.
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In reply to: ivos2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 12:51pm

Yeah, I hear you. I do hope it works out for you. Keep dating others to keep your mind off of it. If he comes around, great and if not you're still meeting new prospects!!!

Happy Friday :-)

 
 
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 1:32pm
Thanks Peanut. Actually he is the only one I am dating for now. I hid my profile.
Here is the scary part - I met about 20 men since January and I keep running onto some of them! It's either a small town or I have been overdating :)
Last night we were walking in this pretty popular square and here was this man jogging that I had 1 and a half dates with. That was pretty funny but made me think..
Happy weekend!
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 1:40pm

Ok, I couldn't let this one slip by...what is a "half" date???

Sheri

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