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| Sat, 03-12-2005 - 8:18pm |
Well folks, on Thursday night I posted a message that the “Wednesday makeout/failed to get into my pants” guy haven’t called to set up weekend plans. The feedback I got that it doesn’t mean anything. I think it does. He had hidden his profile! He is in hiding :) From my few month experience on OLD I have learned this – if a guy is really in to you/wants to pursue you – he will call/e-mail almost immediately following your date. Looking back now I see how some guys who were genuinely serious would call/e-mail to thank me for the good time and with offer of the next date. I don’t know why but for some reason if there is an a**hole within 40 miles radius of Cincinnati – I am instantly drawn to him. Will listen to my gut feel from now on.

I flew over last month- did you feel a sudden need to jump up into the air? :)
I happen to agree in general, if a guy is into you he'll make some kind of effort to get/set a date. There is one caveat, some guys are shy and might not be very bold or good at doing it... but I think THOSE guys, if they're into you, will at least be communicating with you somehow.
They just might not be asking for a date, but they'll be sending an email, IM, calling, something along those lines.
So if a guy just totally flakes out... yeah, he's probably not into you. It might be for a relatively harmless reason (he might be a bit further along with a different gal) and so he might turn up again later (say it doesn't work out) and THEN be into you, so don't slam the door- just shut it gently. :)