Lessons learned this week...
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Lessons learned this week...
| Thu, 12-08-2005 - 1:01am |
Two posters' messages affected me this week (and mind you, if I'm not quoting verbatim, excuse me):
First, Sheri posted and basically said how we all are going through our individual challenges here. Whereas one thinks a challenge is not contacting a person, for another it's a challenge to go outside of one's boundaries...
The second

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It depends...have I been to the restaurant a hundred times before and it was great every time before this one...or is this my first time there? If the former, then I'd probably be inclined to give it another shot to see if that was an aberration or if it's really changed that much. If the latter, not very likely!
Sheri
YOU ARE MAKING THIS SO COMPLICATED!
It was your first time.
Lets talk about dating, I'm sick of restaurants.
I agree, LOL!
Sheri
LOL.
Ok, dating.
<<Would you chase the chefs around the restaurant demanding they make it for you or would you find another restaurant?>>
I would ask them to make what I wanted! Works for me. LOL
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I am so with you. Chitter chatter with all these new people. Sometimes it can become so monotonous! "What's your name? What do you like to do? What are your interests? Where do you stand on this issue?" Blah blah blah. LOLOL
I'm a romantic too, in the ways you mention...but the process of dating is still NOT fun to me, no matter how you slice it!
Don't worry, I always stay positive...but fun, it's not!
Sheri
Eh, yes, it can be fun dating someone you're into...but it's highly stressful as well. I can't wait for the day when I can actually *relax* and enjoy being in a committed relationship with someone I like, rather than being in the dating phase.
Sheri
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