LG, We Want Details

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Registered: 02-02-2004
LG, We Want Details
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Sat, 03-05-2005 - 1:09pm
on your lunch date...

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 4:31pm
Nice person. Matched her photo almost perfectly. Close to me geographically. Stared at me nearly the entire time as if she had seen a ghost.
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 4:32pm
What were you wearing? Any pimples? Was she cute?
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 4:36pm

I believe in looking exactly like the profile pictures. So I wore the Walmart bag...

She was cute but barely said anything -- so I haven't the slightest idea of whether we're compatible.

I got a lot of practice making conversation though. If I hadn't been through a bunch of meets before I would definitely have a complex from this one.

This did emphasize the value of get to the meet asap -- and not wasting time beforehand with weeks of cutesy emails and IM.

Got to practice my "keep in touch" close -- I swear I don't know how guys find time to pursue multiple women.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 4:44pm

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Because they don't think about it, they just do it. And as you know from all the posts, they do NOT do a very good job of it! "been busy with work", "my kid is sick", "my mother died", "my dog ate my internet connection/phone line/dialling finger".

lg, was she a OLD newbie?

amjay

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 4:52pm
My suspicion is that she may have been somewhat new to the scene. I don't have the patience to play the guessing game though.
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 5:05pm
Geez, sounds like you've written her off. Is that true?
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 7:40pm

Yeah - probably nothing there. Same as the one I saw for dinner last week who told me how much she liked going out because "it was just like being with her friends..."

Jeepers Creepers - where do they teach Women to talk like that...

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 9:11pm

LG, perhaps you should cut her some slack. Maybe she new to OLD. Maybe she hasn't dated in a while. Maybe she was nervous...

Just my 2 cents!

Claribeth

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Registered: 12-29-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 9:15pm
or maybe she was so in love with his wal-mart outfit, she was in awe ;) I'd say, see her a few more times to find out more about her.
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 9:31pm

Well, it's hard to believe YOU need any advice, lg, especially from someone like me -- not even the wankers have asked to see my t*ts!

Do you think maybe you've done OLD so long you've forgotten how nerve wracking first meets really are?

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