LG, We Want Details

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Registered: 02-02-2004
LG, We Want Details
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Sat, 03-05-2005 - 1:09pm
on your lunch date...

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 10:50pm

So LG....

No Chemistry 101 on this one? And do you think she stared because, like So many of us women, she had not been in the company of a Real man who could be courteous, interested, funny and Not refer to anything remotely sexual within the first...ohhh...Three Minutes of the date!?

Personally, unless you are just not feelin' it, which can happen, give her a chance to come back to Earth, I Know I would be awestruck if Ifound a man like You! :)

(and btw...it is not like you have given me your MasterCard number or anything, so I am saying these things because I hold these truths to be evident!)
Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 11:37pm

Yeah I guess what you've all said could be true. I usually walk away from these get togethers figuring if there isn't any enthusiasm that I won't bother. However I often discount that the other person could have been really nervous.

I honestly don't know about chemistry. I've never gotten the feel on a first meet. Too many things going on at one time. And I've guessed wrong a couple times on how attracted the other people have been.

Probably a lot of truth in the advice you guys have given.

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Registered: 12-29-2004
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 10:35am
To me, chemistry means the feeling of "wow, I want to kiss this guy!" at the very first moment I see him. I had this only w/ my current one. If you feel, "hmm.. she's o.k., but.." I'd say, NEXT!
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 2:46pm

hmm - doesn't work for me. I've met some stunners. Never had that feeling. Maybe I'm turning Gay...

I am not that attracted unless there are other commonalities. Pretty people online are a dime a dozen. Maybe a penny. The truly interesting ones that you have something in common with are very rare.

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