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| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 1:39am |
Hi
I met this guy real after talking to
him online for a year.
Checked with him where our relationship stands
after we spent together a week.
His comments were.
I like you.
I am afraid you are in love and I am not.That makes me sad.
I did not fall in love with you, and we can't do nothing
for that.I think it would be wrong for you.
what does this means........
does it means it will not go beyond "like"?
I feel that he is the greatest guy and we seem to be
compatible in terms of interests etc.
I do not want to loose him.
Help.
Thank you.
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| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 2:04am |
On line for a year & one week spent together in rael life, does not make a realtionship. He is telling you he is NOT in love with you & that he isnt PLANNING On being in love with you. Im sorry its not what you expected.
| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 10:00am |
To me, it sounds like he is saying that he doesn't think of you in a romantic way or in a relationship way after meeting you. Just because you have a lot in common and had a nice time, doesn't mean he felt the connection - at least not the connection he feels you did. Although I agree with the other poster that talking for a year online and then spending a week together does not a relationship make, nor does spending a week together really give you enough time to fall in love with someone, he is trying to be a stand-up guy and tell you that he doesn't have the same feeling you do and is trying to "let you down easy" so to speak. If you think you can be just friends with him, go for it. Otherwise, you need to move on.
