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|Tue, 05-06-2003 - 4:03pm|
I guess what i am trying to say is this...Sure you have idle chat on the web. But you need to be able to distinguish the difference between idle, and deeper meaningfull chat. As for myself, being a guy, i can see and understand that from a womans standpoint there needs to be some degree of caution. And this caution should be taken....There are some points that I would advise to look out for though, because guys, as I have told Gail, have two heads. unfortunatly, the majority of guys think with, or use the wrong head.
So if you are only able to chat at certain times of the day with a guy, or he will not give you his home number allthough he has yours, and you find he only calls at certain times, this could be a warning that he my be married or involved with someone, and he is only interested in one thing. There has got to be a free flow of communication and open honesty between both of you, to enable you to make the decision to take the relationship further.
Gail and myself have had a number of conversations with each other, about things that one should look out for with on-line relationships. So ...if you would like to know any more about things to look out for im sure Gail will tell you all that we have spoken about.
I hope that this does not scare you away from on-line relationships, but that love can also be found on-line and that on-line relationships are OK.
All the best....Mark