little confused!

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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 12:23pm

Hi everyone,


Merry Christmas to all!!!!! I met this person on pof and we e-mailed for a few days then we went to chatting on yahoo, we finally exchanged phone numbers but he hasn't called we still chat and text all the time, he's like the sweetest person so last

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Sat, 12-19-2009 - 5:19pm

My 2 cents...I went out with a guy who had been addicted to drugs.

sooooobig
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Sat, 12-19-2009 - 12:51pm

Hi thankyou for your responses I really appreciate them so much. We are meeting tomorrow for hot chocolate depending on the blizzard were going to have. I am going to take this VERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY slow and do some serious thinking if things don't work out then I have a friend and you can't have to many of those!!!


I wish you all a Merry Christmas!!


Lisa

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 9:54pm

It sounds like you already have an idea of what you could be in for there. So welcome to the board. I hope you keep posting. and Happy Holidays to you too cuban!


Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.

Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.          &nb

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Registered: 12-18-2009
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 11:07am

How do you know he’s not married?

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:40am

Hi,


to let you know yes he goes to meetings I believe twice a week and speaks at the meetings and at high schools, hospitals where ever he can speak. Many many moons ago I was involved with an addict and it was the hardest thing in the world. I will check out that board you suggested thankyou so very much.


Have a very MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!


Lisa

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:18am

He wanted to be completely honest and told me that he was an alcoholic he's been sober for 24 months and he stopped smoking 18 months ago.


I think it's great that he's being honest with you and wants you to understand what you might be getting into before it goes further. I respect that integrity actually. But it could also be a sign that

Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.          &nb

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 8:43am

Hi everyone,


I wanted to give you an update, his computer was acting crazy last nite and so he called YAY!!!!! The conversation was really nice we talked for a while about all kinds of things, he's a very nice person.


He wanted to be completely honest and told me that he was an alcoholic he's been sober for 24 months and he stopped smoking 18 months ago. I told him thats its great how long he's been sober I do like him but not sure what to do, can anyone here give me any advice, it would be so greatly appreciated.


I have another question someone posted a message I didn't get it was deleted just wondering why? Hope everyone has a great day!!!! Stay warm!


Lisa

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 3:01pm

Ok I'll say just like that I'll be nice but firm. Geeeezzz I'm alittle nervous, but your right. He's going away to a family christmas reunion this weekend and should be back sunday.


Lisa

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 2:52pm

The married question is valid.

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 1:57pm

No love he's not married he's been divorced for a couple years and he's always in contact with me what do I do??????


Lisa

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